Sunday, August 31, 2014

Cultural and Social Pressure

 This the fourth and probably last blog I write about "Bend It Like Beckham". In this blog, I would like to write about social pressure represented in the movie. In the movie, as those of you who have watched it may already know, Jess, the protagonist suffers from social pressure.

 The social pressure includes

  • Girls should be able to make dhal and chapati
  • Girls are not expected to play football
  • No snogging in the public
 Since I have already discussed the first two points in the previous blogs, I would like to talk about the scene where Jess was misunderstood to be kissing a man in public in this blog. In this scene, due to Jess being misunderstood to be kissing in public, her sister's marriage was canceled. This incident emphasizes that Jess is living under the social pressure. 

 Additionally, there was a scene where  Tony confessed Jess that he was gay. In this scene, her reaction was "you are Indian!" that implies that under social pressure, Tony does have not freedom to be homosexual.

 Therefore, in the movie "Bend It Like Beckham", the social pressures are represented in many ways.

As I mentioned at beginning, this is the last blog I write about this fantastic movie. I hope you enjoyed reading my blogs! By the way, please feel free to comment on my blog.

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New Generation and Old Generation - Cultural Difference


 As you may know, this is the third blog I have written about "Bend It Like Beckham". In this blog, I want to write about the cultural difference between new generation and old generation. In the movie, there are scenes that represent Jess from the new generation as different from the old generation; such as her mother in law and her relatives.

Through the entire film, there were many scenes that represent difference between younger generation and older generation. However, I would like to highlight the parts where she takes a free kick in football and the opposition make a wall to block her kick. Suddenly, the opposition become her Indian relatives instead of the football players in her mind. But she successfully kicks the ball over the wall and scores the goal. I personally think that this is the scene when she decided to overcome her older generation advice and her Sikh family cultural *norms but to do whatever she likes.
In my opinion, after this free kick, she makes up her mind to continue to play football. I firmly believe this is why she said "I want more than seeking a good husband" which has traditionally been the most important thing in the life of the old generation of Sikh family

If you have watched the movie "Bend It Like Beckham" before and felt differently, please feel free to leave any comments below. 

*norms means standard expectation

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Western Culture and Indian Culture


 In addition to the last blog about traditional gender role in "Bend It Like Beckham", I want to write about the difference between western and Indian culture represented in the movie. In the movie, Jess, the protagonist makes friendship with Juliette who is from western culture. There are both similarities and contrasts between western culture and Indian culture.

 To begin with, in both cultures, mothers expect their daughters not to play aggressive sports such as football. Instead, they want their daughters to do something which attracts men who will eventually become their husband. For example, in the movie, Jess was told to learn about making chapati as a way of finding a good Sikh husband. Furthermore, there was the scene where Juliette was suggested by her mother to buy bras which make her chest look bigger instead of sport bras. Therefore, I personally believe that in many cultures, seeking for a good husband is thought as being important for young female adults by their parents.

 On the contrary, there are scenes where Jess discusses about marriage with Juliette which represent dissimilarity of freedom in these two cultures. In western cultures, women are usually free to decide about their husband and the traditional values are not as influential as the individuals willingness. On the other hand, in Indian Sikh culture, marriages are arranged and one's ethnic cultural background outweighs one's willingness. For instance, Jess is supposed to marry a good SIKH man.

If you have watched the movie before and felt differently, please feel free to leave any comments below.

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Indian traditional gender role



 Recently, I watched a movie called "Bend It Like Beckham". In this movie, there are some scenes that represent Indian traditional gender role. As you may know, traditional gender role varies from culture to culture.

  In the movie, Jess, the protagonist is expected to marry a "good Sikh man". Since the gender role of traditional Indian female is to do the household chores, she is expected to learn cooking; such as dhal and chapati. If you don't know what dhal and chapati are, the picture is shown at the bottom of this blog. Despite the expectation from her parents especially her mother, she loves to play football and dislikes cooking. This creates conflicts between her and her mother.

 The scene that highlights the traditional gender role is when Jess' mother says " No Indian girls are expected to play football especially those who cannot even make chapatis". This quote shows that in Indian Sikh culture, girls are expected to be able to do all the household chores especially cooking  instead of fulfilling their personal dreams such as becoming a professional football player like David Beckham.

If you have watched the movie "Bend It Like Beckham" before and felt differently, please feel free to leave any comments below.  

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Image result for dhal                            Image result for chapati
dhal(dried pulse whic has been split)                              chapati (unleavened flat-bread from India)


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